An update...

embracing singlehood...

I just came home not too long ago from a retail therapy trip with Lindy who's back frm the land of the surfing aussies..
Had a really good time with her..
shes one of those friends that i am and will treasure for the rest of my life..
no need to be pretentious with her..im just completely at ease with her..
laughing..teasing..even talking about the serious issues..all that can be done with her..
even despite the distance and lack of communication we still have that special bond which i with all my heart thank God for =)

well..the sad part is..we both share the experience of having to break up and let go when we dont want to..but know its something we have to do..
we were going from place to place..reminiscing about the memories that came to mind at each venue..cineleisure..taka foodcourt..the shoe shops at far east..
memories that immediately cause an aching feeling directly to the heart..

but as i think about it..
being single hasnt been all that bad..at least for me..
ive been spending more time with family and at home..
ive been spending more time with friends..and basically with more people other than my other half..
i dont spend every free time sms-ing..or icq-ing..or msn-ing..
i dont constantly worry about doing or saying things that may cause hurt to the other party or even worse..a misunderstading..
i am pretty much free to do what i want..the way i want..where i wanna go i go..who i wanna go out with i go..

yet..i suppose..its always nice to have someone there..
someone who will be there to listen to you when u need to whine or cry or smile and laugh..
someone who will give u a hug to just make you feel like nothing is impossible..
someone who will surprise you with a gift when u least expect it or for no reason..
someone who will love you for who you are and not what you have..

hmm..you know what?
im not "single" after all..
guess who fits the above description perfectly?
=)